Erin Hart &

Joel Rainey

Indianapolis, IN April 25th, 2026

Their Love Story

The Red String Theory is the notion that despite time, place, and circumstance, the path of two destined individuals may stretch or tangle, but will remain connected. It is the belief of this bride and groom that they are at opposing ends of their own red string.

Erin and Joel shared a fleeting high school romance pulled from the lyrics of Avril Lavigne’s Sk8er Boi - good girl inexplicably drawn to bad boy. It was this initial love that tied our own dancer and skater together before conflicting interests stretched their string to the limit.

12 years passed, marked by career and personal growth. Joel pursued Indy’s local culinary arts while Erin chased the artistic opportunities of Philadelphia. During the 2022 holiday season Joel felt an undeniable urge to contact an “old friend,” prompting him to slide into Erin’s DMs. Though they debate when the initial message was sent, neither will deny the conversation was easy and the reconnection was instant. After a quick drink date turned into closing the bar, Erin and Joel both knew this was the beginning of their forever - their string was untangled at last.

For over a year, they lived hundreds of miles apart, traveling between states every few months and FaceTiming nightly. When hardship struck the Hart family, Joel was the steadfast presence Erin desperately needed. Before the passing of Erin’s mother, Joel asked permission to marry her daughter, and seven months later, with her siblings’ blessing as well, Joel got down on one knee and asked Erin to be his wife. Now, they excitedly await tying the [red string] knot surrounded by those they love most.

What’s Happening When

The bride and groom request festive semi-formal attire. Think colors, textures, ruffles, and florals — have fun with it! The venue is an outdoor grassy space, so plan your footwear accordingly.
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